How Powerful Is Positive Thinking In Your Life

Here are a couple of salient points regarding just how powerful positive thinking is in your life…We know for a fact that reversing the thought process changes the circumstance, and that is not what we are going to master here. We are mastering the how’s the practical application of these Laws in our own lives. In order to usher in real change. Knowing these things and being able apply them in an effective manner are two entirely different things, with entirely different outcomes. One rule we haven’t discussed is this…The more you master…the more heightened your awareness becomes. You absolutely get to a point where you feel people in a very real way, this is when you have aligned yourself appropriately with the vibrations around you and are most likely to be able to truly help people on a higher level of understanding.

As we delve deeper into understanding how to implement the things we have learned we have to push through some of the more complex issues, or challenges that we face on a daily basis. We have covered in great detail how to effectively change our financial picture, how to cope with and overcome fear, and how to manifest success, however there are two more top New Year’s resolutions that we have yet to cover, and those are improving our personal relationships, as well as health and weight management challenges. We will focus on these things for the remainder of the month.

So…with that being said why is it that people get divorced? I mean, if we can exercise the law of attraction or the power of positive thinking in a way that can manifest absolute or positive change in our lives and our relationships with others then why is this so ineffective in what is most dear to us? Our most intimate relationships. Why do troubled marriages fail to improve and result in Divorce.

So the most challenging obstacle we facing is learning to rebalance our relationship Karma. Why is it the most challenging?? It’s the most challenging because two parties are manifesting within the relationship consistently enough to create static or resistance in a relationship. How on earth do we unravel this mess, well it goes like this…One or both partners are focusing on what is wrong with the other person, and they do this consistently, so what they are actually doing is continuing to manifest more of the same right? In a partnership we are most unlikely to recognize the fact that people can change, we fail to recognize their willingness to change, or most importantly the fact that to some degree they have changed. We continue to hold them to the same standard of shortcoming, thus creating more of the same.

When you have two people doing this…focusing on everything that is wrong with their partner you are sending out a message that you want what? More of the same and that is exactly what you get more of the same. After all we always get exactly what we lend our focus to…what we think about the most, and we are consistently thinking of what our partner lacks. We focus so much energy (both partners) because change is equally important to both of them, no one wants a divorce, no one wants their marriage to fail.

The easiest solution to the problem is what? To ask your partner to stop looking at you as you are, or as you were and to start seeing you as they would have you to be, start seeing you as the idea of a perfect partner, more than a vision of it, more than the thought but creating the feeling that you would feel for this person if IF they we already the perfect mate and companion. BUT…
This is only effective if both partners are equally informed, and have a common understanding that they are working against change in their relationship because they are catering to the law of attraction, and working to attract more of the same BS, thus creating the absolute impossibility for change.

So….how do we if we are the singular partner who understands why things are in the state that they are in initiate change? Well, we still no matter how challenging it proves to be have to make a conscious choice to be the first one to start. You have to be steadfast and true in your desires, and put double the energy into the way you feel about your now perfect mate…who for a time is going to continue to rattle your cage, piss you off beyond measure, but you must absolutely must refuse to waiver in your belief that this person is the absolute best they can be.

There will come a time when you have to call attention to subtle change, and it will be subtle because the other half of your relationship is still creating against you, and maintaining improper balance in the relationship karma. So for example you have to say “ You know I’ve noticed an improvement in things” I just started looking at all the good things about you, all the things I love, and have refused to lend focus to our problems, and I like the way this feels, those types of suggestions will prove to be very powerful in further improving your relationship. We know how powerful suggestion can be.